I have had a lot of my friends near and far experiencing heartbreak within the past few months. My advice before you invest your feelings please take time to talk and make sure you are on the same page with the person you are dating. Sometimes what we cling to tightest is what we most desperately need to let go. Heartbreak can be a prerequisite for fulfillment. I know what it is like to have my heartbroken, and I know we can’t rush healing, but we make it welcome.